I am in a dilemma, I've been with a Shanghai girl ( who have grow up here in Shanghai all her life) for almost a year. Now she is pressing me to get a house( a flat, size wise, 100meters or so) , at the very beginning, I half heartedly saying, "ok, we can do that, we can take our time"
11 months later, she is pressing me to buy her a house prior the marriage. I am really getting the hint that she is in the marriage for the real estate, but not me, for the sake of love. I understand…Continue