When you will get married?

Is marriage important to you? and when you will get married?

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Permalink Reply by Evgenia Savchenko on February 23, 2012 at 5:16pm

I think all depend on person and nationality. For example, in Russia it's very strange if people didn't get married till 30 years old and more stranger if he doesn't want it ) A lot of my female classmates got married already and have 1-2 children... but they are not more than 25 years old. And it's absolutely normal for russians. But it's very strange if 32-35 years old man (of course woman too) didn't get married. If woman didn't get married before 30 years old, it will be very difficult for her to find very good man in Russia, because all good man gor married already )))

And if u didn't get married around 25 years old, all people will ask you every time: "You didn't ge married yet?" )))

And every time you must to answer: "Not yet, but it will happen soon" ))

As for me, I would also prefer to get married before 30. Prefer to have a strong man close to me, who will care about me and love me. And I need a man to care about him and of course have children from him....it's the most important!!!

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Permalink Reply by 张卫修 on February 23, 2012 at 7:35pm

Come on...Except for people that are already engaged, can anyone possibly say when they are going to get married?

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Permalink Reply by Celina Wang on February 23, 2012 at 10:15pm

Damn, i also want to know the answer! before 35 i think?

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Permalink Reply by panda on February 23, 2012 at 10:24pm

Girls, never marry for must-have a marriage!

Picture youself marry a man who you don't feel like marrying. Options after marriage: 1. living unhappily but you bear all till the day you die. 2. divorce, which make the situation even more difficult for a happy second marriage. If you have kids, OMG, you whole life is ruined. If you are lucky to find a man to marry you regardless your kids with your ex, there still will be many problems. It's not easy to handle the role of step father/mother. Lots of problems will come up, especially in China, because marriage is not an issue between two of you, but an issue between two families. There will be even problems after you/your husband die:inheritance. Not kidding.

Even marry a good man/woman does not make a happy marriage without love.

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Permalink Reply by 3lfb0jt48958x on February 23, 2012 at 10:29pm

@ 张卫修 I agree with. @ Evgenia this is what am talking about pressure from people parents and society. 2012 modern day life it shouldn't be strange for a person to choose not to get married or marry when they want or whatsoever their choices maybe.

Pressure them marriage and you will pressure them into sad marriage life or divorce or extra marital affairs.

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Permalink Reply by 张卫修 on February 23, 2012 at 11:15pm

Your last sentence is spot on. I'm amazed at the amount of cheating that goes on amongst married couples here, both men and women, and the only thing I can think of that it could be attributed to is people getting pressured into marrying people they don't really love.